Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Where You Live Can Change How You Live

We can’t wait for you to call Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care, in Cary, Illinois, home. With Assisted Living, and Memory Care offerings, you can find a lifestyle that fits.

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Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Unapologetically Unique

From programming that recognizes the adult that you are, to our innovative, rotating menu concepts, we aren’t your typical senior living community. In every aspect of community life, we are moving away from ordinary and pushing for extraordinary.

Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

A Lifestyle That Fits

When you do need a little help, Assisted Living or Memory Care provides a better and brighter tomorrow Our team members are here to meet your specific needs.

Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Revolutionary Dining

Food and nutrition are important, which is why we have revolutionized dining. Here you will enjoy the best ingredients, including seasonal and regional produce, and find the ambiance, service and quality you would expect at your favorite restaurant.

Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Age Fearlessly. Live Colorfully.

Our residents live extraordinary lives, and we honor their passions and interests by including them in the conversation. With resident feedback, YOU inspire our programming and calendar of activities. This intrinsically motivates greater participation and involvement in ways that yield tangible and meaningful results. We can’t wait to have you contribute your talents and ideas!

Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Where Everyone Matters

We believe different backgrounds and beliefs contribute to an enhanced culture and provide a greater ability to innovate, relate and engage.

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Located off Northwest Highway, Northwest of Downtown, Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care is your perfect transition into a convenient and well-tailored life.

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Assisted Living
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Customized care coupled with an environment to thrive.

Memory Care
in Cary

Cognitive support to extend and maximize interests and abilities.

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Senior Living Community in Cary, IL

Looking for a place to call home for your retirement years? Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care offers the facilities, activities, and amenities to make your golden years rewarding. Our residents come from Cary and the surrounding communities, such as Trout Valley, Port Barrington, Fox River Grove, Oakland Hills, and more. Live close to your family, friends, and the places you like to go to shop, socialize & worship.

My Mom was in the Memory care side of facility for approximately 6 months. I would visit with her practically every other day. A staff member would come to her apartment everyday day to check on her, see if she would like to participate in an activity or let her know it’s time to eat. I know all these types of facilities are spread thin with staff, But during my visits, I got to see first hand how hard the entire staff worked and still take care of critical residents. You can tell that they truly cared about the residents and even took the time to get to know the family and listen to their concerns.The facility would have a weekly Happy Hour with a different entertainer. It was so enjoyable to watch the residents having a good time dancing and singing.One other thing, if there was any maintenance issue, Josef was on top of it immediately.

Leslie C

20:44 19 Nov 25

My mom has been a resident for almost a year. It’s a beautiful facility….The staff is fantastic! The dining room always has delicious choices, and there are a lot of activities to keep everyone busy!

Stephanie Austin

19:47 21 Aug 25

My mom has lived here for over 9 years. The staff and residents become so close and look out of each other. As mom has needed more services added and help with daily living the staff have done their best to care for her. The location is wonderful.

Lorie Schuetzle

20:22 24 Jun 25

Three Oaks is more than a beautiful facility, it is a family home. Certainly, the caretakers and staff are professional, and the care is top notch. But there is a warm family atmosphere that make this facility a true community. One of the stands outs on the staff is Director Cara. All the staff is great, but she might be the best thing to happen to the facility and to the residence. My parents were there for 2 1/2 years. They thoroughly enjoyed their experience, and I am grateful for their care the peace of mind it knowing my parents were safe and 'at home'.

Don Siciliano

18:19 04 Oct 24

They take great care & love all the residents there. I love that they welcome us to visit. Everyone knows you by name.Love visiting my sweet mom ❤ gives me peace knowing that she is being taken care of.

Andrea Buehler

00:05 18 Nov 21

My mother has been a resident of Three Oaks for several months. Care has been cheerfully and professionally provided, she likes the food , and the activities offered are always varied (the entertainment manager is always in touch with residents to see what could be added for their benefit).When we were helping my mother find an assisted living home, the care and attention to needs of residents was first on the list of priorities, but a beautiful environment was next. At Three Oaks, we found both.We also appreciate the transparency that has been offered from the beginning, regarding care and how the organization is run. This has built trust, and that is priceless.It is a wonderful feeling to know your loved one is being cared for with skill, professionalism, and with caring.

Susan Schilder

16:22 23 Sep 21

Cindy and staff were absolutely wonderful throughout the entire process. They were very informative, helpful, understanding and always responded back to us promptly. Amazing people.

Christine Pizza

13:34 30 Jan 21

This place was truly a blessing for our family! After years of looking for a good place for my mom, we found Three Oaks and I cant thank them enough for the care, compassion and hard work for our love ones!

Alicia Macias

17:23 11 Jun 20

I can't say enough about the staff at 3 Oaks. It truly is a blessing to know mom is not only safe, but truly cared for. We tried keeping her home, but I am so glad that did not work because, even through her Alzheimer, her life is more rich there, from activities to care, I do appreciate them all. Thank you Amanda for helping us navigate this quagmire of a health care system and helping mom. I would recommend 3 Oaks to anyone finding themselves in the need for a loved one.

Susan Grossenbach

15:41 28 Jan 20

Moving my Dad out of his home of 63 years was very hard. For all of us. but at 90 years old, we all knew that he needed to be somewhere safe and comfortable. We had already heard about Three Oaks from friends of ours that had previously moved in. They really liked it. My first visit there to gather information, I was introduced to Shirley. She has been wonderful with my Dad and also answering all of mine and my siblings questions. I felt very at ease calling her at any time with questions and concerns. I thank Shirley very much for making this life changing time go a little smoother .

Donna Litza

19:35 21 Nov 19

Shirley and the entire team at Three Oaks have been incredibly helpful and accommodating as my in-laws transition from another assisted living facility to Three Oaks. I'm especially grateful for the excellent lines of communication, both phone and email. They don't hide behind their voicemail, and are willing to help out with even the smallest details, and that's meant a lot to us. The facility is kept spotlessly clean, and there's a real sense of community.

Julie Rackow

15:46 19 Jun 19

A place I highly recommend! Three Oaks is a wonderful residence for a loved one. The building is bright and shining clean, with a lovely charm and very pleasant atmosphere. A very warm and welcoming environment, which is so important in a difficult time of transition and change. Whether it is staff or fellow residents, people are supportive and positive, like an extended family.Rooms are very neat, spacious and clean, with nice amenities, good lighting, a large restroom, and ample closet space. There are plenty of activities to do as well, a small but charming library with two computers, books, and magazines, as well as a movie theater, rooms to read in, engage with others, or just relax, such as the bistro.Staff at Three Oaks is to be highly commended; whether it be CNAs, nurses, or people in the offices, the director, or staff in the kitchen, people are upbeat, hardworking, and always going the extra mile to try and address any concerns or questions a resident or family members might have.And yes, the food is truly delicious, not a common compliment when one is reading a review of an assisted living, or a nursing home. Healthy produce, with nice variety.I have nothing but praise for Three Oaks, and am happy to have found a place--after having seen a number nursing homes and assisted living residencies for both parents over the past few years--which quickly feels like a second home. Thank you!

Kristina Rosser

04:56 14 Jun 19

I have been very satisfied with the experience at Three Oaks Assisted Living and Memory Care. My mother has Alzheimer's disease and has lived at 3 Oaks for two years. They are compassionate, kind, and always working to improve. They are always coming up with new ideas to engage residents and improve the quality of life of those who are entrusted to their care. The caregivers and administrators are respectful to residents and family members. I wholeheartedly recommend 3 Oaks Assisted Living and Memory Care.

Catherine Henry

23:05 27 Jul 15

My aunt has been in Memory Care at Three Oaks since August of 2013 and it has been the best experience for all of us. She was in 2 other facilities before moving to this place: one where she broke her hip and it wasn't discovered for a few months, one where she did her rehab, and here. We call the staff of caregivers "angels" because they are so loving and respectful, and that can be challenging because my aunt isn't an easy person to care for personality wise. Three Oaks AL is a blessing all around. Even my husband, who gets creeped out by nursing homes, said this place was great. He said the way it is decorated resembles an upscale hotel: clean, bright and elegant. He was very pleasantly surprised. It definitely is NOT a nursing home. I can't say enough good things about Three Oaks and it's staff.Unfortunately, this past spring we opted to move my aunt because the cost to live their increased way more than we expected. We were promised one thing upon move-in, but in the end did not receive what inspired us to to choose Three Oaks in the first place.

Cindi Jahnke

11:11 11 Jul 14

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Experience Life Here

We provide an exceptional restaurant experience, progressive programming that goes beyond expectations, and a wellness program to support all of your goals, thereby maximizing your happiness, independence, and total wellness at Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care.

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Transparency, options, and value – it’s what we’re all about. The spaces and amenities here at Three Oaks are designed to help you live your very best life.

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Culture. Resilience. Community. 💙

This month, and all year long, we are honored to celebrate Jewish Heritage Month. We reflect on the vibrant history, rich traditions, and enduring spirit of the Jewish community that has shaped so much of our nation and our local neighborhoods. To our ...Jewish residents, team members, and friends: we are incredibly privileged to hear your stories, learn from your history, and share in your beautiful traditions.

Here is to celebrating the strength and beauty of this community together!

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This May, we proudly celebrate Asian American, Native Hawaiian, and Pacific Islander (AANHPI) Heritage Month! 🌺

Our communities are enriched every single day by the diverse cultures, beautiful traditions, and incredible histories of our AANHPI residents, families, and team members. We ...are incredibly grateful to be the keepers of your stories and to have the privilege of sharing in your heritage. Join us this month as we honor the vibrant traditions and the profound impact the AANHPI community has made on our neighborhoods and our nation!

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Less workout, more dance party! 🪩✨

Aventura Senior Living at Overland Park is excited to launch our their new “Move and Groove” fitness series! Here is what is on the agenda:
🎶 Turning up our absolute favorite tunes
💪 Stretching and building strength
😂 ...Non-stop laughs with friends

Who knew getting moving could be this much fun? Drop your go-to dance song in the comments below! 👇

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eeping cozy and looking absolutely fabulous! 🧶✨

Our Memory Care residents spent the afternoon weaving and sewing the most incredible handmade hats. Armed with the softest thick yarn and endless imagination, everyone designed a totally unique masterpiece to keep warm. Activities like ...this are packed with laughter and prove that creativity truly has no age limit! Around here, every thread tells a story—and today, those stories came with some seriously cute headwear.

What color yarn would you choose for your custom hat? Let us know below! 👇

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Monday: 0. Happy Hour: 1. #retired

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Our Memory Care neighborhood traveled through culture and cuisine today, crafting traditional Romanian colac completely from scratch. The hands-on process of mixing and braiding the dough naturally sparked the most beautiful conversations about family heritage. We entirely love providing these ...sensory-rich moments that bring history to life!

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Bistro by day, exclusive Tattoo Parlor by happy hour! 🤘✨ #independentliving #seniorlivingcommunity

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Nothing brings a neighborhood together quite like a shared love for animals. 🤍 The sound of joyful laughter echoing down the halls has been non-stop since these little ones arrived. Our residents have naturally taken on the role of chief snuggle coordinators, making sure that every single moment... of the day is filled with gentle pets and watchful eyes. It is a beautiful, daily reminder that compassion and the deep desire to care for others have absolutely no age limit.
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There is an incredible comfort in seeing loved ones experience genuine, profound peace✨☮️ Our Memory Care neighborhood recently hosted a beautiful Sound Bath session, filling the room with the gentle vibrations of singing bowls, chimes, and soft drums. This unique, waterless experience allows... residents to simply relax and feel the soothing tones without needing to follow any complex instructions or rely on memory.

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The most beautiful impromptu wedding just happened at Las Palomas Senior Living! 💍✨

Our resident Ed received the surprise of a lifetime when his daughter Cathy arrived from Chicago ready to say her vows. She was getting married for the first time at seventy years old and wanted her ...parents completely front and center. Our team pulled off an absolute miracle by sourcing a harpist, a cake, and gorgeous flowers in record time. Cathy even walked down the aisle carrying her mother's vintage brooch on her bouquet. Celebrating love surrounded by family is exactly what living colorfully is all about.

Leave your congratulations for the happy couple in the comments below! 👇

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Rule number one of living at Rigden Farm is we never miss a chance to throw a fun celebration ! 🐣✨

Forget the quiet retirement stereotypes. Our residents just pulled off the ultimate Easter Eggstravaganza! They hid over 400 eggs for 40 eager hunters and brought in the absolute best ...guests from Golden Valley Farm. Yes, we mean Sparky the horse, Sprout the donkey, and Lilly the chicken! 🐴🐔 Living colorfully means embracing the beautiful chaos of bubbles, crafts, and farm animals right in your own backyard.

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This was all for you, Colleen 🥹❤️ Happy 100th Birthday ✨

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Age fearlessly.
Live colorfully.^®

It’s time to live the good life, engage in your community, and embark on new adventures. Schedule a visit to see the Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care community and begin your next chapter today. We can’t wait to meet you!

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Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Located off Northwest Highway, Northwest of Downtown, Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care is your perfect transition into a convenient and well-tailored life.

Explore our care levels

Assisted Living in Cary

Memory Care in Cary

Senior Living Community in Cary, IL

Experience Life Here

Senior Floor Plans & Pricing in Cary

#AgeIsAnAttitude

Age fearlessly. Live colorfully.®

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Age fearlessly.
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