Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Where You Live Can Change How You Live

We can’t wait for you to call Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care, in Cary, Illinois, home. With Assisted Living, and Memory Care offerings, you can find a lifestyle that fits.

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Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Unapologetically Unique

From programming that recognizes the adult that you are, to our innovative, rotating menu concepts, we aren’t your typical senior living community. In every aspect of community life, we are moving away from ordinary and pushing for extraordinary.

Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

A Lifestyle That Fits

When you do need a little help, Assisted Living or Memory Care provides a better and brighter tomorrow Our team members are here to meet your specific needs.

Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Revolutionary Dining

Food and nutrition are important, which is why we have revolutionized dining. Here you will enjoy the best ingredients, including seasonal and regional produce, and find the ambiance, service and quality you would expect at your favorite restaurant.

Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Age Fearlessly. Live Colorfully.

Our residents live extraordinary lives, and we honor their passions and interests by including them in the conversation. With resident feedback, YOU inspire our programming and calendar of activities. This intrinsically motivates greater participation and involvement in ways that yield tangible and meaningful results. We can’t wait to have you contribute your talents and ideas!

Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Where Everyone Matters

We believe different backgrounds and beliefs contribute to an enhanced culture and provide a greater ability to innovate, relate and engage.

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Located off Northwest Highway, Northwest of Downtown, Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care is your perfect transition into a convenient and well-tailored life.

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Assisted Living
in Cary

Customized care coupled with an environment to thrive.

Memory Care
in Cary

Cognitive support to extend and maximize interests and abilities.

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Senior Living Community in Cary, IL

Looking for a place to call home for your retirement years? Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care offers the facilities, activities, and amenities to make your golden years rewarding. Our residents come from Cary and the surrounding communities, such as Trout Valley, Port Barrington, Fox River Grove, Oakland Hills, and more. Live close to your family, friends, and the places you like to go to shop, socialize & worship.

My mom has lived here for over 9 years. The staff and residents become so close and look out of each other. As mom has needed more services added and help with daily living the staff have done their best to care for her. The location is wonderful.

Lorie Schuetzle

20:22 24 Jun 25

Three Oaks is more than a beautiful facility, it is a family home. Certainly, the caretakers and staff are professional, and the care is top notch. But there is a warm family atmosphere that make this facility a true community. One of the stands outs on the staff is Director Cara. All the staff is great, but she might be the best thing to happen to the facility and to the residence. My parents were there for 2 1/2 years. They thoroughly enjoyed their experience, and I am grateful for their care the peace of mind it knowing my parents were safe and 'at home'.

Don Siciliano

18:19 04 Oct 24

They take great care & love all the residents there. I love that they welcome us to visit. Everyone knows you by name.Love visiting my sweet mom ❤ gives me peace knowing that she is being taken care of.

Andrea Buehler

00:05 18 Nov 21

My mother has been a resident of Three Oaks for several months. Care has been cheerfully and professionally provided, she likes the food , and the activities offered are always varied (the entertainment manager is always in touch with residents to see what could be added for their benefit).When we were helping my mother find an assisted living home, the care and attention to needs of residents was first on the list of priorities, but a beautiful environment was next. At Three Oaks, we found both.We also appreciate the transparency that has been offered from the beginning, regarding care and how the organization is run. This has built trust, and that is priceless.It is a wonderful feeling to know your loved one is being cared for with skill, professionalism, and with caring.

Susan Schilder

16:22 23 Sep 21

Cindy and staff were absolutely wonderful throughout the entire process. They were very informative, helpful, understanding and always responded back to us promptly. Amazing people.

Christine Pizza

13:34 30 Jan 21

This place was truly a blessing for our family! After years of looking for a good place for my mom, we found Three Oaks and I cant thank them enough for the care, compassion and hard work for our love ones!

Alicia Macias

17:23 11 Jun 20

I can't say enough about the staff at 3 Oaks. It truly is a blessing to know mom is not only safe, but truly cared for. We tried keeping her home, but I am so glad that did not work because, even through her Alzheimer, her life is more rich there, from activities to care, I do appreciate them all. Thank you Amanda for helping us navigate this quagmire of a health care system and helping mom. I would recommend 3 Oaks to anyone finding themselves in the need for a loved one.

Susan Grossenbach

15:41 28 Jan 20

Moving my Dad out of his home of 63 years was very hard. For all of us. but at 90 years old, we all knew that he needed to be somewhere safe and comfortable. We had already heard about Three Oaks from friends of ours that had previously moved in. They really liked it. My first visit there to gather information, I was introduced to Shirley. She has been wonderful with my Dad and also answering all of mine and my siblings questions. I felt very at ease calling her at any time with questions and concerns. I thank Shirley very much for making this life changing time go a little smoother .

Donna Litza

19:35 21 Nov 19

Shirley and the entire team at Three Oaks have been incredibly helpful and accommodating as my in-laws transition from another assisted living facility to Three Oaks. I'm especially grateful for the excellent lines of communication, both phone and email. They don't hide behind their voicemail, and are willing to help out with even the smallest details, and that's meant a lot to us. The facility is kept spotlessly clean, and there's a real sense of community.

Julie Rackow

15:46 19 Jun 19

A place I highly recommend! Three Oaks is a wonderful residence for a loved one. The building is bright and shining clean, with a lovely charm and very pleasant atmosphere. A very warm and welcoming environment, which is so important in a difficult time of transition and change. Whether it is staff or fellow residents, people are supportive and positive, like an extended family.Rooms are very neat, spacious and clean, with nice amenities, good lighting, a large restroom, and ample closet space. There are plenty of activities to do as well, a small but charming library with two computers, books, and magazines, as well as a movie theater, rooms to read in, engage with others, or just relax, such as the bistro.Staff at Three Oaks is to be highly commended; whether it be CNAs, nurses, or people in the offices, the director, or staff in the kitchen, people are upbeat, hardworking, and always going the extra mile to try and address any concerns or questions a resident or family members might have.And yes, the food is truly delicious, not a common compliment when one is reading a review of an assisted living, or a nursing home. Healthy produce, with nice variety.I have nothing but praise for Three Oaks, and am happy to have found a place--after having seen a number nursing homes and assisted living residencies for both parents over the past few years--which quickly feels like a second home. Thank you!

Kristina Rosser

04:56 14 Jun 19

I have been very satisfied with the experience at Three Oaks Assisted Living and Memory Care. My mother has Alzheimer's disease and has lived at 3 Oaks for two years. They are compassionate, kind, and always working to improve. They are always coming up with new ideas to engage residents and improve the quality of life of those who are entrusted to their care. The caregivers and administrators are respectful to residents and family members. I wholeheartedly recommend 3 Oaks Assisted Living and Memory Care.

Catherine Henry

23:05 27 Jul 15

My aunt has been in Memory Care at Three Oaks since August of 2013 and it has been the best experience for all of us. She was in 2 other facilities before moving to this place: one where she broke her hip and it wasn't discovered for a few months, one where she did her rehab, and here. We call the staff of caregivers "angels" because they are so loving and respectful, and that can be challenging because my aunt isn't an easy person to care for personality wise. Three Oaks AL is a blessing all around. Even my husband, who gets creeped out by nursing homes, said this place was great. He said the way it is decorated resembles an upscale hotel: clean, bright and elegant. He was very pleasantly surprised. It definitely is NOT a nursing home. I can't say enough good things about Three Oaks and it's staff.Unfortunately, this past spring we opted to move my aunt because the cost to live their increased way more than we expected. We were promised one thing upon move-in, but in the end did not receive what inspired us to to choose Three Oaks in the first place.

Cindi Jahnke

11:11 11 Jul 14

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We provide an exceptional restaurant experience, progressive programming that goes beyond expectations, and a wellness program to support all of your goals, thereby maximizing your happiness, independence, and total wellness at Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care.

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Senior Floor Plans & Pricing in Cary

Transparency, options, and value – it’s what we’re all about. The spaces and amenities here at Three Oaks are designed to help you live your very best life.

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