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Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care

Where You Live Can Change How You Live

We can’t wait for you to call Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care, in Cary, Illinois, home. With Assisted Living, and Memory Care offerings, you can find a lifestyle that fits.

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Located off Northwest Highway, Northwest of Downtown, Three Oaks Assisted Living & Memory Care is your perfect transition into a convenient and well-tailored life.

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Customized care coupled with an environment to thrive.

Assisted Living


Cognitive support to extend and maximize interests and abilities.

Memory Care
Andrea BuehlerAndrea Buehler
00:05 18 Nov 21
They take great care & love all the residents there. I love that they welcome us to visit. Everyone knows you by name.Love visiting my sweet mom ❤ gives me peace knowing that she is being taken care of.
Susan SchilderSusan Schilder
16:22 23 Sep 21
My mother has been a resident of Three Oaks for several months. Care has been cheerfully and professionally provided, she likes the food , and the activities offered are always varied (the entertainment manager is always in touch with residents to see what could be added for their benefit).When we were helping my mother find an assisted living home, the care and attention to needs of residents was first on the list of priorities, but a beautiful environment was next. At Three Oaks, we found both.We also appreciate the transparency that has been offered from the beginning, regarding care and how the organization is run. This has built trust, and that is priceless.It is a wonderful feeling to know your loved one is being cared for with skill, professionalism, and with caring.
Christine PizzaChristine Pizza
13:34 30 Jan 21
Cindy and staff were absolutely wonderful throughout the entire process. They were very informative, helpful, understanding and always responded back to us promptly. Amazing people.
Alicia MaciasAlicia Macias
17:23 11 Jun 20
This place was truly a blessing for our family! After years of looking for a good place for my mom, we found Three Oaks and I cant thank them enough for the care, compassion and hard work for our love ones!
Susan GrossenbachSusan Grossenbach
15:41 28 Jan 20
I can't say enough about the staff at 3 Oaks. It truly is a blessing to know mom is not only safe, but truly cared for. We tried keeping her home, but I am so glad that did not work because, even through her Alzheimer, her life is more rich there, from activities to care, I do appreciate them all. Thank you Amanda for helping us navigate this quagmire of a health care system and helping mom. I would recommend 3 Oaks to anyone finding themselves in the need for a loved one.
Donna LitzaDonna Litza
19:35 21 Nov 19
Moving my Dad out of his home of 63 years was very hard. For all of us. but at 90 years old, we all knew that he needed to be somewhere safe and comfortable. We had already heard about Three Oaks from friends of ours that had previously moved in. They really liked it. My first visit there to gather information, I was introduced to Shirley. She has been wonderful with my Dad and also answering all of mine and my siblings questions. I felt very at ease calling her at any time with questions and concerns. I thank Shirley very much for making this life changing time go a little smoother .
Julie RackowJulie Rackow
15:46 19 Jun 19
Shirley and the entire team at Three Oaks have been incredibly helpful and accommodating as my in-laws transition from another assisted living facility to Three Oaks. I'm especially grateful for the excellent lines of communication, both phone and email. They don't hide behind their voicemail, and are willing to help out with even the smallest details, and that's meant a lot to us. The facility is kept spotlessly clean, and there's a real sense of community.
Kristina RosserKristina Rosser
04:56 14 Jun 19
A place I highly recommend! Three Oaks is a wonderful residence for a loved one. The building is bright and shining clean, with a lovely charm and very pleasant atmosphere. A very warm and welcoming environment, which is so important in a difficult time of transition and change. Whether it is staff or fellow residents, people are supportive and positive, like an extended family.Rooms are very neat, spacious and clean, with nice amenities, good lighting, a large restroom, and ample closet space. There are plenty of activities to do as well, a small but charming library with two computers, books, and magazines, as well as a movie theater, rooms to read in, engage with others, or just relax, such as the bistro.Staff at Three Oaks is to be highly commended; whether it be CNAs, nurses, or people in the offices, the director, or staff in the kitchen, people are upbeat, hardworking, and always going the extra mile to try and address any concerns or questions a resident or family members might have.And yes, the food is truly delicious, not a common compliment when one is reading a review of an assisted living, or a nursing home. Healthy produce, with nice variety.I have nothing but praise for Three Oaks, and am happy to have found a place--after having seen a number nursing homes and assisted living residencies for both parents over the past few years--which quickly feels like a second home. Thank you!
Experience Life Here

Experience Life Here

We provide an exceptional restaurant experience, progressive programming that goes beyond expectations, and a wellness program to support all of your goals, thereby maximizing your happiness, independence and total wellness.

Floor Plans and Pricing

Floor Plans and Pricing

Transparency, options, and value – it’s what we’re all about. The spaces and amenities here are designed to help you live your very best life.


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It’s time to live the good life, engage in your community, and embark on new adventures. Schedule a visit to see the community and begin your next chapter today. We can’t wait to meet you!

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It’s time to live the good life, engage in your community, and embark on new adventures. Schedule a visit to see the community and begin your next chapter today. We can’t wait to meet you!

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